The nightclub. Several rooms full of bustling babes, bass-filled tunes shaking the dance floor, and lights that make every person look great.
Ahh… the nightclub. You love to go there with your buddies, you love to watch the scenery, but you’re not sure why women go to nightclubs if you’ve never left with one, or have never even met a decent one.
There must be more to nightclubs than going out with your friends and just gawking at women; why would women dress to impress in what looks like uncomfortable knee-high boots, if they were just there to be with the gals?
Well, what I’m about to impart should come as no newsflash. Women do go to nightclubs for various reasons. But if you think they all want to be approached just because every woman is letting her hair down and wearing tight black pants, then you need to get back to the end of the line, where the only person you’ll be making conversation with is the bouncer.
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According to 100 women polled, there are 3 main reasons why women attend nightclubs:
1— To meet men – 64%
2— To see what happens – 21%
3— To have fun – 12 %
4— Other (with boyfriend, on a date) – 3%
Men may realize that women are there to meet someone special, but their problem is that they approach the wrong type of woman, they go about it the wrong way, and they assume that any scantily clad woman wants to go home with them.
And it’s this erroneous assumption that makes club-going men the world over frustrated when they leave a nightclub empty-handed (so to speak), no matter how well their hair is gelled and how much their biceps are popping out of their shirt.
what are your chances?
If you know that 64% of the women swaying their hips to “The Thong Song” are looking to meet men, and another 21% are there in order to “see where the night takes them, without having any expectations,” then you know you have a way in.
The ones who are going there purely for fun usually have boyfriends, and are dancing away at the club while their men are congregated at someone’s house watching the Tyson-Lewis match.
Even the small percentage of women that claim they’re at the bar “purely to have fun,” and are single, are looking for a man. They may not be actively looking, but if the right guy approaches them at a nightclub in the right manner, he has a chance.
Keep in mind that if most women in nightclubs are open to a relationship, it doesn’t mean they are necessarily on the prowl — it only means that they are “open” to the idea, and can be reeled in if you use the right bait.
Armed with this information, it’s up to you to spot those who are there for the party, and those who are there for the afterparty .
Socially Inexperienced Women Tend To Go To NightClubs Early
They go there early because the night starts normally around 10:30pm to 11pm, and they feel they need to be in there to enjoy the night. In any case, going to a nightclub early shows that the women had planned the night out well in advance.
Most Women Go To A Nightclub With The Intention To Meet A Man
Approximately 60-70% of women go out specifically to meet men. In order to facilitate this, women hang around “pickup spots”, they give off signals, and generally stand around doing nothing in order to get men to approach them.
Women Go To The Smoking Area To Meet Men
In a woman’s world, a smoking area of a club/bar is an excuse to open a conversation with someone. Typical female pickup lines are “do you have a lighter?”, “do you have a cigarette?” etc. Women who are on the hunt go to these areas because they believe that having a relaxed conversation with someone, away from the hustle and bustle of a dancefloor or bar is the only way they will meet someone.
Women Go To Bars For The Same Reason They Go To A Smoking Area In A Nightclub
Bars are conversation hotspots, much more than nightclubs are. A women’s mindset if they don’t get approached in clubs, is to go to bars. Middle aged women tend to congregate in these spots and stand around doing nothing, looking to be approached.
Most Women Can Get Frustrated When No Man Approaches Them
This is especially true in a situation where she has intentionally dressed in a flashy way to get men to approach them. Most women have experienced this at some point. This is why being genuine with your interest and really connecting and seeing who she is so powerful for getting her interest.
Women Dress Flashy And In Revealing Ways Because No One Is Approaching Them
Some men think women dress in revealing ways, because “that’s what nightclubs are like”. This is utterly the wrong mindset. Women dress in revealing ways because they aren’t getting approached by men. Initially, a woman will go out with her friends expecting a guy or two to approach them. When this doesn’t happen, she will tend to hang around “pickup spots” and give signals to let men know they are on the hunt. When still nothing happens, a woman will wear less clothing in order to get noticed by men. A combination of everything then happens where women are only being approached rarely. Whenever they do get approached, the men tend to lack masculinity and an aura of trust. They come across as “nice guys” rather than they type of guy they would sleep with and begin a relationship with.
What To Expect
A woman generally goes to a nightclub/bar for the same reason a man does: to get some action and/or meet someone for a relationship. The reason why men fail is due to a lack of knowledge, on both how the feminine works, and how to fully embrace masculinity.